Surround yourself with
(preferably from high school)
Stimulating books and media
– and ONE good Love
– (even if necessarily, sequentially)
가이드를 해주는 부모님들
자극하는 책들과 미디아
-그리고 하나의 좋은 사랑
– (심지어 만약 필수적이게, 연속적이게)
It is hard to have a perfectly equal give and take. The reason is that life does not provide those equal kinds of opportunities in relationships such as friends and boy friend and girl friend and even families. While you might be good at being next to your friend and listening to him/her patiently whenever your friend needs you, another friend might be more good at speaking and keeping in touch. Everyone has strengths and personality traits that play into the give and take of their friendship.
While give and take is never totally equal, you should do your best as a friend, family member, spouse to endure you’re putting all your effort to the other partner.
Surrounding yourself with people
who consistently TAKE more than they GIVE,
is obviously sub-optimal
After they have drained you of your Qi,
they will simply move on
– to their next victim
주는것보다 가지는것을 더 하는
사람들 사이에 있는것은
그들이 너를 너의 Qi로 부터 빼낸다면
그들은 다음 희생자에게로 갈것이다
Try to get-past your Parents’ assorted
misdeeds against you in your youth Jettisoning
the stuff, will liberate you to more fully
reconnect with that invaluable and unique
love-flow (And, relax; 99% of parents
love their children – always have,
and always will.
너의 젋은 시간동안 너의 부모님들의 너에 대한
여러가지 악행들을 지나가도록 시도해라
이것은 너를 좀더 완전하고 독특한 사랑의 흐름으로
너를 해방 시킬것이다 (그리고, 긴장을 풀어라; 99%의 부모님들은
그들의 아이들을 사랑한다 – 항상 그렇다,
그리고 항상 그럴것이다
Enhance someone’s ‘significance’ or ‘standing,’
and you will add to your own.
Undermine someone’s ‘significance’ or ‘standing,’
and you play with fire
누군가의 중요성 또는 지위의 가치를 향상시켜라
그러면 너는 너의 자신것을 더할 것이다.
누군가의 중요성 또는 지위의 가치를 약화시켜라
그러면 너는 불과 놀것이다.