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Surround yourself with

Loving family

Loyal friends

(preferably from high school)

Serious allies

Talented staffers

Proven professionals

Brilliant teachers

Veteran advisors

Guiding parents

Stimulating books and media

– and ONE good Love

– (even if necessarily, sequentially)

사랑하는 가족과

따르는 친구들과



진지한 연합들

솜씨잇는 직원들

증명된 전문가들

총명한 상담가들

가이드를 해주는 부모님들

자극하는 책들과 미디아

-그리고 하나의 좋은 사랑

– (심지어 만약 필수적이게, 연속적이게)

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It is hard to have a perfectly equal give and take. The reason is that life does not provide those equal kinds of opportunities in relationships such as friends and boy friend and girl friend and even families. While you might be good at being next to your friend and listening to him/her patiently whenever your friend needs you, another friend might be more good at speaking and keeping in touch. Everyone has strengths and personality traits that play into the give and take of their friendship.

While give and take is never totally equal, you should do your best as a friend, family member, spouse to endure you’re putting all your effort to the other partner.


Surrounding yourself with people

who consistently TAKE more than they GIVE,

is obviously sub-optimal

After they have drained you of your Qi,

they will simply move on

– to their next victim

주는것보다 가지는것을 더 하는

사람들 사이에 있는것은

분명히 차선이다

그들이 너를 너의 Qi로 부터 빼낸다면

그들은 다음 희생자에게로 갈것이다

Try to get-past your Parents’ assorted

misdeeds against you in your youth Jettisoning

the stuff, will liberate you to more fully

reconnect with that invaluable and unique

love-flow (And, relax; 99% of parents

love their children – always have,

and always will.

너의 젋은 시간동안 너의 부모님들의 너에 대한

여러가지 악행들을 지나가도록 시도해라

이것은 너를 좀더 완전하고 독특한 사랑의 흐름으로

너를 해방 시킬것이다 (그리고, 긴장을 풀어라; 99%의 부모님들은

그들의 아이들을 사랑한다 – 항상 그렇다,

그리고 항상 그럴것이다

Enhance someone’s ‘significance’ or ‘standing,’

and you will add to your own.

Undermine someone’s ‘significance’ or ‘standing,’

and you play with fire 

누군가의 중요성 또는 지위의 가치를 향상시켜라

그러면 너는 너의 자신것을 더할 것이다.

누군가의 중요성 또는 지위의 가치를 약화시켜라

그러면 너는 불과 놀것이다.

Nuri Heo on The Lost Manual | Potentialism Theory by David Birnbaum